Looking for a fresh, engaging way to talk about dating safety?

Cray’s Dating Safety Night format makes it easy for organizations like sororities, fraternities, and student groups to spark real conversations about relationships, red flags, and protecting each other. Using the Cray app as your guide, members explore real-life scenarios, share insights, and walk away with practical tools to navigate  dating with clarity and confidence. The event is fun, interactive, and most importantly—impactful. Ready to host your own Dating Safety Night?
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60 min Event Schedule

WELCOME & ICEBREAKER

00:00 - 00:10

  • Brief intro: dating safety matters, why cray was created.

  • Icebreaker Game: “Red flag or green flag?” quick scenarios, group votes.

GROUP ACTIVITY

00:10 - 00:30

  • Members download/open cray app.

  • Each person runs a quick assessment on a past/current relationship.

  • Break into small groups (4–6 people).

  • Discussion prompts:

    • - Which category had the most red flags?
    • - Did anything surprise you?
    • - What do you wish you’d noticed earlier?
GROUP DISCUSSION

00:30 - 00:40

  • Facilitator leads reflection based on group findings.

  • Sample prompts:

    • - Which red flags are hardest to spot early?
    • - Which ones are easy to laugh off but actually matter later?
    • - How can we help friends avoid ignoring the signs?
SCHEMER AWARENESS

00:40 - 00:50

  • Learn about the schemer scale: people who date with hidden agendas.

  • Activity: “spot the scheme” → short chat transcript guessing game.

  • Discussion prompts:

    • - What manipulative tactics stood out?
    • - How do you support a friend caught in one?
WRAP UP & TAKEAWAYS

00:50 - 01:00

  • Key lessons:

    • - Everyone has blind spots.
    • - Cray helps bring clarity.
    • - Red flags spotted early = safety + healthier relationships.
  • Hand out merch or raffle prizes.

  • Encourage ongoing app use & peer conversations.

90 min Event Schedule

WELCOME & ICEBREAKER

00:00 - 00:10

  • Brief intro: dating safety matters, why cray was created.

  • Icebreaker Game: “Red flag or green flag?” quick scenarios, group votes.

GROUP ACTIVITY

00:10 - 00:35

  • Members download/open cray app.

  • Each person runs a quick assessment on a past/current relationship.

  • Break into small groups (4–6 people).

  • Discussion prompts:

    • - Which category had the most red flags?
    • - Did anything surprise you?
    • - What do you wish you’d noticed earlier?
GROUP DISCUSSION

00:35 - 01:00

  • Facilitator leads reflection based on group findings.

  • Sample prompts:

    • - Which red flags are hardest to spot early?
    • - Which ones are easy to laugh off but actually matter later?
    • - How can we help friends avoid ignoring the signs?
SCHEMER AWARENESS

01:00 - 01:20

  • Learn about the schemer scale: people who date with hidden agendas.

  • Activity: “spot the scheme” → short chat transcript guessing game.

  • Discussion prompts:

    • - What manipulative tactics stood out?
    • - How do you support a friend caught in one?
WRAP UP & TAKEAWAYS

01:20 - 01:30

  • Key lessons:

    • - Everyone has blind spots.
    • - Cray helps bring clarity.
    • - Red flags spotted early = safety + healthier relationships.
  • Hand out merch or raffle prizes.

  • Encourage ongoing app use & peer conversations.